So I had a longgggggggggggggggggggg conversation today with one of my forever friends (which is a friend who I've known FOREVER and no matter what we go through we'll ALWAYS be friends)and I must admit we have been distant because the dynamic of our friendship changed. And for her one of the things she said that kept her at a distance from me is that she wanted to be "right" when she came back to me. THAT HURT MY FEELINGS. And I'm 100% sure that it wasn't her intention to hurt my feelings but that statement did. When I leave this earth the one thing I want people to be able to say about me is no matter how wrong they were, no matter how rough it gets, no matter how bad things are I'M ONE OF THE PEOPLE THAT MY PEOPLE FEEL THEY CAN ALWAYS COME TO!!!! Of course because of who I am if I know you are worth more, can do more, and can have more yes I'm going to give you a piece of my mind BUT I'm still going to take you in, love you, and build you back up. Not to mention in my opinion FRIENDS are the people you turn to when things are wrong because of course you're going to attract all types of opportunist when everything in your life is going "right!" But the fact that one of my friends who has known me for forever thinks that they have to be "right" to be friends with me is something for me to look at about myself! Not to mention I'M NOT "RIGHT!" So I dont expect my people to always be but I do expect them to try...Are my expectations what is causing the distance between me and some of my friends???? Maybe....