I've ALWAYS had the mindset of "I AM GREAT TOO" as opposed to "I AM BETTER THAN YOU!" Only because I was raised to believe in my heart whatever God's plan is for me is custom made for ME!!! I NEVER had to compete with people to shine, because when you're a TRUE STAR EVERYONE around you can not only see it but they can feel it....AND TRUST ME WHEN I TELL YOU ITS A WONDERFUL FEELING!!!!