My prayers and condolences to ALL of the women who had it hard coming up and an even LONGER prayer to the ones who can't overcome what they've been through. I remember the year Remy Martin shot the young lady and the young lady's father was in the paper crying saying "This girl used to come to my house to get my Daughter all the time." That brought tears to my eyes. Am I saying that that young lady was right to steal from Remy Martin when all she was trying to do was make a living for her and her son? HELL NO and in all honesty she probably did need a good 'ole fashioned a** whipping BUT to shoot that girl speaks volumes about Remy as an individual more so than it does about the other young lady. How much pain have you endured to push you to a point where you want to KILL somebody? That level of anger and rage is DEEPER than one isolated incident. That comes from YEARSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS of hurting about stuff that either haven't been dealt with, no one cares about or you don't even know you have. I encourage, urge, and challenge ALL of my ladies to take a look inside...Examine your OWN actions, behaviors, and responses to the things that you're not only going through BUT also the things you've been through!!!!! I ALWAYS preach this day in and day out....WE ARE ONLY RESPONSIBLE FOR SELF IN THIS LIFETIME!!!! In front of the judge and at the pearly gates you will only have to answer for SELF....Take accountability for YOUR actions and God will give you YOUR blessings. Monitoring other peoples actions will only block your blessings....Choose wisely!