Now you'll KNOW I'm a REAL TALK GIVER ALL DAY!!!! Including to myself.....I watched the first Oprah's LifeClass and Iyanla Vanzant said a statement that stuck with me..., STATE THE FACTS AND TELL THE TRUTH!!! That's the REALEST sh*t I've heard in my life!!!!!! So me being me I had to find a situation to use it for to make sure it works....I used the situation I was having with my EX Pumpkin.....HE KEEPS SAYING HE LOVES ME! I'm not too sure of that so I did exactly what Iyanla Vanzant said....I stated the FACTS.....He hasn't taken me anywhere, hasn't done anything special with or for me (unless I initiated it) and he hasn't introduced me to anyone SPECIAL in his life as somebody special in his life......Now I have to tell the TRUTH....KHADIJAH THAT BOY DOES NOT LOVE YOU!!!!! He might enjoy f*cking you and all the other benefits that come with dealing with you but he does NOT love you and the facts blatanly support that! Although it was a HARD pill to swallow, its REAL and I respect it! Why don't you guys try it with me........STATE YOUR FACTS AND THEN TELL YOUR TRUTH ABOUT A SITUATION YOU'RE STRUGGLING WITH IN YOUR LIFE....I guarantee you not only is it THERAPEUTIC but very much NEEDED!